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I met up with a friend the other day for a coffee and a chat, filling in each other on the latest goss. When he asked me for my opinion on a certain matter concerning himself & his partner, ( I have my veiws but couldnt be honest because I didnt want to hurt his feelings)
basically he met his partner back at the beginning of the year whilst he was studying at college, out of boredom he registered with another well known gay introductry website, they met a couple of times and keep in contact via email & text messages. Then a few months later they started dating properly and finished up living together, at first they had an excellent relationship and a very healthy sex life, then something changed, my friend isnt sure if its to do with him or his partner, but the trust from him towards his partner is hanging by a thread. My mate lives far away from his hometown and doesnt have a lot of friends where he lives now, as the friends he had made have moved onto university in other parts of the country. So the friends that he has left he enjoys spending time with and on occasion will spend the weekend with them as most others would do!. Only to return to find all his belongings packed up by his partner, this has happened a couple of times, I asked him if he had been unfaithful whilst staying with other friends and he swears that he hasnt, most of time he is enjoying having a drink or a smoke (which are thrawned upon by his partner). Who incidently has totally changed from being happy go lucky and fun to be with, who on occasion liked to let his hair down but has changed to be a miserable, condescending toss pot, but I must give him his due he does work hard, but I cant say that as an excuse for acting as he does. My mate says at times his partner creates a bad atmosphere at home and thinks that he may be checking his emails so i said if youve done nothing wrong then youve got nothing to worry about. I asked if they have talked about things to try and sort things out, He replied that if he has a problem it will be mentioned if brought up and would also say something if it was on his mind, But he feels honesty isnt always the best policy, as most things talked about are brought up in arguements and twisted, as his partner has discussed what ever the matter, with his best mate (who is a person that is the last that you'd ask about relationship advice) Personaly I feel that it is a shame that their relationship has gone this way-but think his partner has some issues with insecurities and is putting them onto him, and also I think that he has been unfaithful and is trying to pass the buck as he is too much of a coward to be honest and admit it, or would prefer to be the victim whos partner has been unfaithful to him so that he has something to winge about, I dont know but I feel that should tell him what I really think!
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basically he met his partner back at the beginning of the year whilst he was studying at college, out of boredom he registered with another well known gay introductry website, they met a couple of times and keep in contact via email & text messages. Then a few months later they started dating properly and finished up living together, at first they had an excellent relationship and a very healthy sex life, then something changed, my friend isnt sure if its to do with him or his partner, but the trust from him towards his partner is hanging by a thread. My mate lives far away from his hometown and doesnt have a lot of friends where he lives now, as the friends he had made have moved onto university in other parts of the country. So the friends that he has left he enjoys spending time with and on occasion will spend the weekend with them as most others would do!. Only to return to find all his belongings packed up by his partner, this has happened a couple of times, I asked him if he had been unfaithful whilst staying with other friends and he swears that he hasnt, most of time he is enjoying having a drink or a smoke (which are thrawned upon by his partner). Who incidently has totally changed from being happy go lucky and fun to be with, who on occasion liked to let his hair down but has changed to be a miserable, condescending toss pot, but I must give him his due he does work hard, but I cant say that as an excuse for acting as he does. My mate says at times his partner creates a bad atmosphere at home and thinks that he may be checking his emails so i said if youve done nothing wrong then youve got nothing to worry about. I asked if they have talked about things to try and sort things out, He replied that if he has a problem it will be mentioned if brought up and would also say something if it was on his mind, But he feels honesty isnt always the best policy, as most things talked about are brought up in arguements and twisted, as his partner has discussed what ever the matter, with his best mate (who is a person that is the last that you'd ask about relationship advice) Personaly I feel that it is a shame that their relationship has gone this way-but think his partner has some issues with insecurities and is putting them onto him, and also I think that he has been unfaithful and is trying to pass the buck as he is too much of a coward to be honest and admit it, or would prefer to be the victim whos partner has been unfaithful to him so that he has something to winge about, I dont know but I feel that should tell him what I really think!
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